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Synopsis
A woman adrift finds a unique path forward in a charming and heartfelt novel about memories, identity, and the wonderful mysteries of life by the author of Olivia Strauss Is Running Out of Time. Grace Whittaker's life is coming apart. In the wake of her mother's death, a stalled writing career, and a slow-motion separation from her husband, Grace is more directionless than ever. But when she returns to Sea Drift, the beach town where she and her mother summered for years, Grace's life comes together in the most unexpected ways. Soon after arriving on the picturesque coastline that meant so much to her, Grace discovers more than she remembers, and for reasons she can't possibly fathom. Amid the weathered surf shops, pastel motels, and sloping beaches, Grace begins to encounter younger versions of herself. Each one is vivid, alive, and breathtakingly real. As she navigates this most surreal week--reconnecting with old friends, trying to solve a quiet mystery about her mother, and revisiting a love she left behind--Grace is forced to remember who she used to be. It's the only way she can figure out who she can still become.
Is Ways to Find Yourself appropriate for my child?
Suitable for most readers 13 and up.
A contemplative adult novel about grief, identity, and reconciliation with the past through magical realism. Content is emotionally mature but clean, with themes of loss and marital separation that younger teens may find challenging.
What to know going in
This book has no graphic violence, no sexual content, and mild language. Content notes include death of parent, grief, and divorce.
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Who'll love this
Adults will connect with Grace's journey of rediscovering herself through encounters with her younger selves in a magical beach town.